Blue valentine

yesterday i watched movie called blue valentine starring Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. i was driven because both actors were golden globe nominee. i thought it was just a one of boring love story in independent movie. surprisingly, i cried through half movie. it was captivate.




the story was about a young man named Dean and cindy they were,working class married young couple. he`s a painter, she`s a nurse. dean falls the first sight with cindy when they were meet at nursing home. dean head over heels. meanwhile,cindy is in "unclear relationship" with her mate which at the end made her pregnant. in short, they married,dean and cindy. and Dean`s character who came from a broken home family trying everything to make this family work,which he had doubt and swore that marriage was never a choice in life

cindy`s character here was a desperate young woman, whose never had affection from home, their parents was never in her best interest to picture as a harmonious role model.

and as the story goes, just like a young couple, trying to deal with world of marriage,had no a good example.

the interesting part was the character. Ryan Gosling surely played good and felt every scene you`ve been taken through the journey of their trouble married. there was a scene where they had taken a day off just to enjoy their companion. and cindy was pushing him away. don`t wanna be touched. and dean was angry but the line was so well said. i`m sure any marriage couple had this issued. felt rejected. not been given enough affection :)


but from my point of view : it`s so hard to keep the love alive. and it was right they say it takes to tango, and understanding your partner was a commitment of lifetime. no matter how good you are,how bad your try when love is gone. its gone. and you`re being selfish to yourself.

as i wrote this i told myself that i gotta have someone who`s beyond patient,and responsible for his action.

and i`m making my blue valentine one of my favorite love story.