a best and a truly
I Learned one thing about friendship lately after i`ve been hit my series of uncomfortable event. From betrayed, being not trusthworthy, and all. At my lowest point i rethink everything about friendship, was i a good company? was i bad? am i not trustworthy? had i hurt them? all these question appears. I`m not gonna defense myself. yes,most likely i made a mistake, yes, probably i hurt them. And so i`m accepting the consequences.
at the same moment a dear friends of mine noticed that something bugging me and so i told them i confess to them that i made mistake. big or small didnt really matter coz i`ve done it anyway. and they looked me and told me" why is that even your fault?", u didn`t know it what will happened?", " u knew your friends" and " how could they punished you like that?" .
a dear friends told me then " don`t wasting your life on others, we`ve come so many bumpy roads to achieve what we need to accomplish, a true friend would not make things complicated, infact they should known u better. if he/she pissed of what u did, perhaps he/she should asked themselves what they even did it and give u the excess baggage"
of all my entire life building relationship i have never try to hurt anyone else,i tried my best to be just an ear and ignore what everybody thinks about me. I tried my best to stay true to myself.
and then my dear friends said" at the end a relation must end because don`t have the context to stay in the relation anymore" . i like this idea. No matter how many years we build our pieces there will be a hole,there will be ruin. because everything has its expired date.
so my lesson would be this :
you can be or you can accept things or even claimed its your best. but a genuine truly heart is not easy to find. when you find yours truly, you dont need to look further because they appear when you needed the most.
at the same moment a dear friends of mine noticed that something bugging me and so i told them i confess to them that i made mistake. big or small didnt really matter coz i`ve done it anyway. and they looked me and told me" why is that even your fault?", u didn`t know it what will happened?", " u knew your friends" and " how could they punished you like that?" .
a dear friends told me then " don`t wasting your life on others, we`ve come so many bumpy roads to achieve what we need to accomplish, a true friend would not make things complicated, infact they should known u better. if he/she pissed of what u did, perhaps he/she should asked themselves what they even did it and give u the excess baggage"
of all my entire life building relationship i have never try to hurt anyone else,i tried my best to be just an ear and ignore what everybody thinks about me. I tried my best to stay true to myself.
and then my dear friends said" at the end a relation must end because don`t have the context to stay in the relation anymore" . i like this idea. No matter how many years we build our pieces there will be a hole,there will be ruin. because everything has its expired date.
so my lesson would be this :
you can be or you can accept things or even claimed its your best. but a genuine truly heart is not easy to find. when you find yours truly, you dont need to look further because they appear when you needed the most.
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